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kidney beans anyone?

i love pat, my brother.....

just found out this week he's in need of a kidney. yup. the docs say he'll need dialysis before too long....i'm not biologically linked, but if i were a match (i have the same blood type), i'd donate in a hot second.

he's so drained, so tired. it broke my heart to talk with him last night.....but, we still laughed and laughed and laughed, like we always do....the best medicine of all, yah? when we started talking about cadaver vs. living donors, he joked.....'i'm holding out for some plane crash....one full of olympic korean athletes!!!!'

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coffeebean
Sep. 27th, 2007 10:14 pm (UTC)
It turns out, its not so easy, I've realized... someone I know needs a kidney but his son and his daughter have been trying for months. They need you to not be overweight at all, not drink for the last I don't remember how many months, not have done any drugs, not smoked, nothing.

Well YOU could because you're in great shape and haven't been drinking... but you might have even had to go a while longer since you probably drank in the last couple of months?

So his daughter quit smoking and drinking but is still a little overweight (not much at ALL) and his son quit drinking, never smoked, but he is also a little too overweight.

And the poor guy is having the worst time with his dialysis and everything.. its like shit, let them give him their kidney already!!!!
artworkslive
Sep. 27th, 2007 10:49 pm (UTC)
jeebus, that's harsh!!!!!

guess that's why my bro is holding out for some living or dead (?) olympiad....i'm not sure what all the criteria are, but if it comes down to me (bottom o'the barrel, seriously!), i'll do my darnedest!

hope your friend pulls through!


coffeebean
Sep. 27th, 2007 10:54 pm (UTC)
I hope he does too. :(
He's such a close family friend that I really feel like he's my uncle.

I get so mad when they are SO picky about his kids' condition. They are young and only 10-20 pounds overweight. Its ridiculous, and he's getting worse.

I hope your brother is okay!!

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